Anyone can RSVP for events however ALL new single men must attend a new member orientation before attending one of our larger SOP events
Some crave the spotlight. Others prefer to watch from the shadows. At Watch Me, The Pendulum Society invites you to indulge your most voyeuristic and exhibitionist desires during a night of sultry tension and teasing displays.
Join us at The Pendulum Society for Ski Bunny Night, a playful winter-themed lifestyle event where cozy meets sexy and après-ski fantasies come to life. Whether you’re wrapped in faux fur, rocking thigh-highs and goggles, or dressed like you just stepped off the slopes and straight into temptation, this night is all about flirtation, fun, and consensual adult exploration.
Join us at The Pendulum Society for Turn It Up & Take It Off, a high-energy rock & roll–themed lifestyle party where rebellion meets seduction. This night is all about loud music, bold looks, electric chemistry, and unapologetic self-expression. Embrace your inner rock star, flirt shamelessly, and indulge in a night of consensual adult play in an environment built on respect, consent, and connection.
Join us at The Pendulum Society for Black & White… And Barely There, a sultry night where the dress code is daring and the mood is electrifying. This is your chance to play in elegant black, crisp white, or simply whatever minimal attire you can get away with — from lingerie to the bare essentials. Socialize, flirt, and explore in a safe, respectful, and sexy adult lifestyle environment.
Celebrate love, lust, and playful indulgence at Candy Hearts & Dirty Thoughts, a Valentine-themed rave where sweet meets naughty. Expect heart-pounding beats, a flirtatious and electrifying atmosphere, and a night full of connection, dancing, and consensual adult play. This is the perfect night to let your desires run wild while surrounded by a safe, sexy, and respectful lifestyle environment.